Monday, May 17, 2010
Pinkflash...not All Bliss...Unless We Wish
If you consider all the time you have loved and been loved, I mean romance, deep romance, in your life space, I think maybe a huge chunk of it is pain....so its not all bliss. At least from what I have seen myself and what I have heard and seen from others...
Life space? OK, that is your timeline in life, your total time here...age! And in the space or places you have been....that means everywhere you have loved as well as everyone! A little scary? Needn't be...hang on...
So tally them up...all the loves....all the times...all the places...that's it, your love life space! And if you follow...a chunk of it was not always smooth, was it? Some was downright painful...and, of course, most as probably just great...but why? Why the pain?
I decided to try my best in these conversations about the Pinkflash to stay true to life as I know it, but somehow mostly positive. How can that be if some of it was not so positive?
I have come to think, not the easy way, but after long times and trials at it, that it has to do with the way we choose to view our loves and, as well, our losses.
So I will be trying for this side of it...the upside....
Whether we think about this from our daily schedules on the planet, or at 30,000 feet, flying in a jetplane, it is all about our memory and how we hold it. So the loves of our life, the good side of the story, the side we are proud of and makes us happy, and the losses as well, it is our memory we live with....what is today, not what could or should have been. It is sometimes so hard.
Janet Jackson said, "You don't have to hold on to the pain, to hold on to the memory". Let the pain go...hold the best part...that is the part that has the light in our souls...
Pinkflash is forgiving. Remember, when we want it, it escapes, when we are least expecting it, it is right there...
I am convinced that it visits everyone...more than once...and that with all that it is in its full show...it is one of the greatest gifts...
Life space? OK, that is your timeline in life, your total time here...age! And in the space or places you have been....that means everywhere you have loved as well as everyone! A little scary? Needn't be...hang on...
So tally them up...all the loves....all the times...all the places...that's it, your love life space! And if you follow...a chunk of it was not always smooth, was it? Some was downright painful...and, of course, most as probably just great...but why? Why the pain?
I decided to try my best in these conversations about the Pinkflash to stay true to life as I know it, but somehow mostly positive. How can that be if some of it was not so positive?
I have come to think, not the easy way, but after long times and trials at it, that it has to do with the way we choose to view our loves and, as well, our losses.
So I will be trying for this side of it...the upside....
Whether we think about this from our daily schedules on the planet, or at 30,000 feet, flying in a jetplane, it is all about our memory and how we hold it. So the loves of our life, the good side of the story, the side we are proud of and makes us happy, and the losses as well, it is our memory we live with....what is today, not what could or should have been. It is sometimes so hard.
Janet Jackson said, "You don't have to hold on to the pain, to hold on to the memory". Let the pain go...hold the best part...that is the part that has the light in our souls...
Pinkflash is forgiving. Remember, when we want it, it escapes, when we are least expecting it, it is right there...
I am convinced that it visits everyone...more than once...and that with all that it is in its full show...it is one of the greatest gifts...
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