The Pinkflash Is About Love, but What Is Love About?

There are so many damn questions and quandries about romantic love. Incidentally, when we say 'romance', we are not talking about love for an animal, a hobby, a song, or a favorite sports team.....we are talking about the pssionate bond between two humans.

We are talking about a lifetime of this....who...how many...how they worked out or did not....and what this is all about...

My contention is that a fulllife includes this kind of love....romantic love, once, twice, or many times.....it begs the question: can there be a full life without it?

Where is the training for this if it is so important? I believe it comes from its origin....mother-love, then later parents, then an endless string of influence....including Hollywood and fantasy...

The training is by some kind of luck....some may get it,some may not....some may even miss love at birth, resulting in later-life consequences....

The pinkflash is when we become consumed in the affection for another....it is the ultimate gift of ourselves....we may look graceful and elegant, or look like ultimate clumsy fools, but we still go all the way....we give and want to receive....

Mysteris abound. Questions surround this paradise. Why now, some ask. What age is approprite, and we all know, this kind of love and when its magic hits as the pinkflash, it is ageless....from twelve to ninety two....

How many times should it happen in one good life? Is it best if it is just once? What if it happens five times? Does that cheapen life?

Some believe in the "one life-one love" ideal. Surivors know that is truly an ideal. Real survivors know that life brings us close with other hearts and souls too often than may even be comfortable.

How do we act? How sould we act out, play out our love? Should we see where it might go? What if we have other loves to consider?

Maybe the pinkflash has more potential for problems than it does happiness. Then should we shrink back and live in a safe zone of ambivalent love?

The pink flash is true love...it is freefall love...it is one of life's great gifts...but it is also playing with fire...how can we know where it is headed?

To act on love, to dance the dance, to look away, to run....these are among the toughest decisions in a full life.

I define a full life as even one with great pain, but one in which before we die, we can say we have experienced the splenour of deep closeness and surrender.

The pinkflash cannot be planned, reversed, controlled, erased, avoided or stopped. When you may least wish it to be there, it is right in your life. When you want it, it eludes you like a dream...

What is certain, is that it will happen, probably at least once...

Get ready for one of the most powerful forces in the universe to show its face to you...in the face of that person....you will have the chance to touch that face....and be touched....to remind you of its power....