Raison d' Amour Parte Deu

Landed in Copenhagen...just a quick straight miraculous shot across the Atlantic from Chicago...here at my keyboard some 18 hours later.....no big deal...that is our global world...Southern California to Skandanavia in 18 hours....continue wtiting....continue where you left off....it is just a minor global adjustment.  After all, our primary mission is to put something back on this planet.....a company, an institution, a school, an art institute, a family, a company, a child, a tree...

So where does this love come from?  Why does it hit?

Here is where I am in my life and what I have learned from my interviews with those of all ages...everywhere....

Faces.....that is what we look at first....sometimes love at first sight.....body.....same.....but that is just the first layer of attraction....some people like me tune in fast to who the person is, below their facial beauty.....what they stand for.....do they appreciate small things....are they spoiled about the materialism of the commercial, fashion, travel world....

Thus, I look fast, and can find fast deeper values....

Then, if the other person really does notice you....does hook into your words, your poetry....and if they take it deep into them and their life, then share with you....something has happened that is maybe magical....a back and forth starts...deep or not...it starts....and you know it....

It means going deep.  Sharing, being vulnerable, and reciprocating that vulnerability....if there is still a rapport at that level, look out.....we are talking heart and soul.....

But why?  Where does this come from?

Young people also want soul....want deep...

We do not really as humans have any way of finding such dear people to us.....no matter how hard we try....some say, if you want to meet your future husband or wife go to church meetings.  It remains the number one place people who marry meet--church.

The whole rest meet by accident.
Art stores, bars, restaurants, schools....
Accident.

Could we agree that there may be no accidents for some of these meetings?

I personally believe that when people are spiritually ready, the forces of the universe puts them together as "accidents"...they have to do worldly footwork to make things happen ...maybe marriage....maybe babies...

So, why, the raison d'amour......it is a deep biological drive within each of us to mate and see our face with that of our dear loved one in a child....to nurture that child all the way....our biologies and hormones cannot be denied.....yet alone our dream of having a child, family....Where does this come from....the person....at the time.....who they are....that is the big 'accident' that the universe has given each of us....that moment we free-fall....

Perfect age, perfect family, perfect demographics and cultures....sometimes....BUT, sometimes not and the love is even stronger......

We talk about heroes.  We talk about entrepreneurs.....
Through all of this, there are deeply human stories triumphant that contain pain, culture difference, age difference, other barriers, yet a child is born.  Love is at the highest.  That child receives kisses as much as any child.  That child is a champion, a treasure.  Two parents are so much in love, they know the deepest secret....they acted on their love....they have a beautiful child to raise into the world as a product of their love...

That is partly where it comes from.  The whole rest is the Creator.  No matter what a husband and wife want.....it is the Creator who brings them this destiny....

Our heart is not just this very rational thing, logocal, strategic.  Real life brings love and more when we maybe least expect or plan it....is it s a gift?   

If we see it as a gift, a wakeup surprise.....we live....

Our future husband or wife may be an angel....as we think of angels.....
They may be strangers.....coming into your life quite legitimately but in surprise dimensions...
They will be rarely people you have stayed with for long periods, like old girlfriends, old boyfriends...
I have seen too many cases where someone was just wakened up by someone new....
"New"....meaning older, younger, not in the normal category of lover expectation....

Pinkflash is real....it does happen very fast sometimes...it is based on brain chemistry....
My argument is that it may be based on destiny....and more than brain....it may be about deep values...
Things we see beyond the eyes....things we see deeper in the person, then we fall.....free fall...

It comes from what our Creator has given each of us as basic equipment.  Our job is to make sure that we are tuned and in fitness.  How we have been taught to love....comes from our own mother when we were infants....and everything we have observed about love ever since those days....no book, teacher, picture, film, can change that.....we are destined to love.....because that is what we first knew.....and we are destined to find what our spirit and our bodies hunger for.....it will be seen later as "no accident"....everything will make perfect sense....across cultures, ages, times....deep love will find you and me....and always has....
....a force we cannot fight....shape or deny.....

It may be part of what we all have to do.....put something back on the planet....like a child......
We are not meant to die alone....with no one to take care of us......the whole human drama gives us all lots of room to make sure we will have our destiny as we want it.  But, we are meant to have love with us and around us....parents, loves, children....that is just what human history and destiny is all about....
Our challenge is to know when the players of our sacred family act just show up....and to love until we are fulfilled and fulfill the life of that one we so deeply love...

Love was the first thing we all knew when we were all so helpless in our mother's arms.  It was her first kiss we all felt on our forehead.  She taught us all the first lesson of life....love.  That is where it comes from....and from the original love of our mother and father who loved enough to create us.  How could it be otherwise....that is what we first knew.  That is the origin of our love for all others....the light of life is passed on....

So when you love someone....it all traces back....we are all amazing miracles, not cosmic accidents.  Our job now in our lives is to create that first kiss...to love someone so deeply....to share our spirit of love and life....and to pass the torch of life....our life and our love is in our hands...hearts....souls....